Relationships: Friend or Lover??

On facebook, a friend of mine asked: "Ladies & GEnts is It okay for your Girl/Men to have opposite Sex as a BESTFRIEND?? AND WHY??"

I answered...

Of course it's okay. Only you yourself can be stupid enough to believe that it cant be so. You control your body and your actions, your words and who you befriend.Having a bestfriend is having SOMEONE YOU CANT COUNT ON, these people see you at your worst and at your best. That doesn't mean they have to be paid in sex, a valued friendship is payment enough. If the opposite sex is attracted to you AS your bestfriend, they did it to themselves and they found something special in you, that doesnt mean it has to be friends with benefits, it just means you have matured enough to carry this valued friendship into another level. They know you like the back of their own hand, so if it happens it happens.

Now if we're talking about just friends and not a close friendship, you're just letting your temptation have the best of you, you're friends will never know who as closely as a best friend, thats the difference. Same sex or not. Everything is in YOUR hands, you make the decisions in your life and if you end up having relations with this best friend, well its up to the both of you to be mature and move on and not let it ruin the value in your friendship or take it as a chance to be together with the person who knows you best. If you both agree to end the friendship right then and there, thats you choice and you just lost one of the most important people in your life. Just talk it out and thats that."

How do you guys feel about having the opposite sex as a best friend? My boyfriend is my best friend and I can't see myself telling my female best friend all the things I am able to tell him. Is that wrong? Who do you think?

xoxox

-PEPi

Poetry: Won't You Notice Me

Can you look into my eyes and say that you have seen me?
Can you say that you looked at me deeply?
Or will you pass me by as if I am someone else?

Where have I gone? Where does my mind belong?
Oh I am lost, so lost in these woods..
If I could find my way back I would,
Oh I am lost, so lost in these woods..

I know things will get better!
I look up and see the sun breaking through the trees,
The warmth on my back, I feel it!
It's here! I know where to go..
The woods aren't so dark any more!

Vivid colors, beautiful flowers..
Oh the heat is rising in its power..
I'm running now, chasing rabbits!
I won't stop until I have it!

Run! Run! Running away I go!
Until I find myself.. with this happiness shining bright against my back.
Won't you notice me?


Currently listening to: Faded Paper Figures - North by North


I was pretty bored when I wrote this, but this song sparked something and I just typed away, I liked the outcome. :]

Do you ever get inspired to write when you see or hear something? Care to share? :*

xoxox

-Pepi

Fashion: Outfit Post! (High Waist Shorts!)

Hey everyone! Miss you all! I've been diligagging? Lollygagging? Idk! I've been procrastinating again! Shame! I should be put to shame! ;__;

I'm sorry! I know I said I wouldn't do it, but I have no one around to take pictures of my outfits so it's rare that I actually post one up!

I wore this today, I did NOTHING. Absolutely nothing. I went outside with my mom & ate a hotdog.. Yippee doo! (sigh) My life is sooo boring! Anywho, I thought I'd take pictures since I've neglected my lil ol' blog for sometime now. The shorts are actually purchased from BklynQueens whom I model for. Most of the clothes usually fit me! Mahahaha! Anyhow, always check back Friday afternoons for new items! They've got some HOT new stuff coming and I'm staying on top! I dare you to outbid me! DARE YOU! :0

Shirt: H&M (was a dress), Shorts: Levi's 900 Series (70's), Bag: Fanny Pack, Shoes: Wedges from Lulus.com

Necklace: Vintage Find, Glasses: Thrifted Earrings: Seashells (self made), Bracelets: Beaded (self made) other vintage finds

Okay that's it! I really love this outfit, it's become one of my favs! During the day time I usually have shades on of some short! Ahh sunlight! Yes, it burns.. Yes.. I am a vampire! ... (sigh).. Edward Cullin <3

Enough with the blabbing! I hope you guys enjoyed this outfit! Some people are pushing me into styling.. I might just do it! What do you think of it? 

Happy Friday!

Have a good weekend everyone!

xoxox

-Pepi

STYLISH BLOGGER AWARD!

I was awarded this a WHILE ago! I was just going through my email and decided now's the time to blog it. Procrastination is a killer!

Thank you so much to Rhiannon over at ifyoucantbeaworkofartwearone! Sorry I am so late with this! I've been so caught up trying to get a little recognition for my Accessory line I completely neglected my emails and blog somewhat. FORGIVE ME MY LOVES! You are my life! I swears, I swears this is true! Haha, anyways :p

With this award, I have to tell you 7 little facts about me... Hmm.. Where to start!?

#1 I am 5 feet and 6.8 inches tall. Most people who befriend me online before in person naturally assume I am 5'10- 6" ! It's crazy and very annoying! I'm short! I am regular sized! Stop rubbing in my shortness! I guess its okay because I am the perfect height for my boyfriend. Yeah, we're okay now. I forgive you guys! :0

#2 I really hate when people assume I am a professional model. Looking at Fact #1, I don't even hit the height minimum which is 5'7 -5'8, sometimes not even! I don't even like modeling, my mom always pushed me as a kid. That industry is HORRIBLE! -shivers- Pretty disgusting too! I won't get into any details! But ladies, if this is something you are pursuing, please, PLEASE, be careful! There are a lot of pervs out there who will use you, and never give you photographs! Also, not all modeling agencies are legit! Get the facts first!

#3 If I could eat Taco Bell... NO! If I could eat a CHEESY GORDITA CRUNCH, no lettuce, light on the white sauce everyday I WOULD! I love that taco! It's so good! Omg, omg! -mouth waters- I really love this taco! It is a regular hard taco (beef + cheddar cheese) surrounded by more cheese (mozarella + cheddar) & thick soft taco! Mmm, mmm, good! Tacos, there so damn good, possibilities! (yes.. I stole the cambells soup line!)

#4 Sometimes I wish I could wear the same outfit everyday of my life like a cartoon! It's really hard getting up, showering, brushing teeth, washing face, and getting all glammed up for nothing! You come home and take it all off! Don't get me wrong, I love getting dressed! I just wish I didn't have to all the time. If I were rich, I'd buy all the clothes at local thrift stores. The hell with brands! 

You wouldn't judge me if I wore the same outfit everyday would you? Good! 

#5 I don't have many friends that I actually hang out with. Sure, I know everyone personally, but it seems we only carry online relationships, which sucks! My best friend, my sister, my only friend in the whole wide world who I love and trust has moved to Arizona for music school! I am so happy for her! But who am I going to complain and cry to now when my boyfriends not around? PSH! Forever aloneeee! LOL!

#6 I really don't like when people ask me where I shop. It's annoying AND I don't want to walk around town and bump into someone with the same shirt or pants as me! It's ok to ask, I know, because most of my clothes are thrifted or vintage, so it's rare I find someone with the same outfit as me. So that's great! I'm sure this bothers some of you too! My excuse? "It was a gift!" Pahaha, works everytime!

#7 Last but not least! I love writing! I used to want to write a novel.. I don't know what happened to that dream, perhaps I got caught up in designing, or maybe I found myself. But I feel writing will always be there for me, as an escape or somewhere to be. I know one day I will write a book, maybe it will be my autobiography or a fiction novel. It's going to happen though!

I guess that's all!

I haven't even slept I'm still on Monday!

Hahaha! How's your Tuesday going?! 

xoxox 

-PEPi

Fashion: Different Looks of Pepi

These are just some of my favorite photos.. of myself! Conceited much!? NOPE! I just rarely ever really like something, most photographers can't capture me as well as others. I also thought you guys could see my sense of style and how much it differs! 

Anyhow, here ya go! Enjoy!

DUCK FACE! Lmaooo, I liked this one lots!

Just trying to be cool, which I am.. NOT! Lol!

 Ok that's it for the pics! I'll try to do this every other week for a re-cap on me! :D

If you'd like me to model for you contact me @ pepione@things-galoure.com
SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY!

How was your 4th of July! I had a blast, too bad I don't remember anything... hahahaha !

xoxox

-PEPi

Fashion: Mini Outfit Post!

Here's just something I threw on last week! Thought I'd post it since I'm so damn busy and can't find the time to write an actual post and have a heart to heart with you guys! Wahhh :'(

I'll be back soon! I promise!
-Pepi

PS- GREAT NEWS! I've got my new sewing machine so stay tuned for crop tops and other galourish things. :*

Playing with my lippie! Loves it! Nude lip plumper from Victorias Secret!

Something I wore out the other night with a long skirt I made. I didn't take any pics! Boo!

Until next time guys! Hope you're all enjoying this lovely weekend!